Safewords are mandatory.
You can and should be able to use them any time.
Anyone (top, bottom, sub,dom) who says otherwise? Don’t play with them. Don’t go near them. They are dangerous.
Consent is paramount. Communication is paramount.
Anyone who ignores that is unworthy of your time.
I will never understand why stripping is seen as degrading.
Like…the job description is literally “I am so hot that you could never get me in real life so you’re going to have to pay me to dance for you.”
instead of watching the 50 Shades trailer, why not just make awkward eye contact with a total stranger at the grocery store for a solid 2 minutes and 34 seconds? you get the same skin-crawling, uncomfortable feeling but without the shitty writing, terrible acting and massive dose of rape culture